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10 ways to spruce up your confidence levels

Confidence is essential when it comes to dating. You will never get anywhere if you don’t have the courage to go out there and meet people. It’s not a shame if you find it hard to find that confidence because many people don’t. Don’t for a second think that searching and making it happen will be easy though. It takes a lot of effort and will to develop courage and to be honest, not everybody is up for it. But if you really want to make the difference then maybe these 10 tips will help you in sprucing up your confidence levels.

1. Start by engaging in activities that you always wanted to do but never did. It doesn’t have to be big like bungee jumping or anything, just something that you always wanted to learn but never had the time. That or you never really saw its importance. Its importance now lies in what it could do for your creative character. Learn how to cook lasagna, cultivate a bonsai or take up salsa dancing. Things like that. Don’t be afraid to allot time for these simple things now because it will be for your own good. Read the rest of this post »

Dating basics

No matter how fast the dating game may be or how complicated it could turn out, one must never forget the basics. Because most of the time, that’s really all you need to know. But most of the time, we get so caught up with trying to find the one that we inadvertently forget the fundamentals. So now, it may be a good time for a refresher course.

Here are the things that you should remember not to do. Let me tell you what you’re doing wrong before telling you the things that you could do about it. Read the rest of this post »

Halloween dating

Sometimes the seasons themselves connive to give you the perfect dating opportunity. Yes Halloween season is upon us again and you know what that means? Halloween Parties!!!!!

I’m not a little kid jumping up and down on the notion of candies here. I’m talking about ladies man! Halloween is a great time to pick up women, especially if you have been having trouble doing that during the other months of the year.

Halloween is an excellent time to hook up if you prepare for it rightly enough. There will be parties here and there with women who are all looking for a good time. You will have lots of options, don’t worry. But first, you must keep some things in mind. Read the rest of this post »

Straight from the book mistakes

Dating is hard enough as it is without us having to screw it up. But most of the time, we do. You know, screw it up.

Women today know what they want and have clear ideas on how to get it. But sadly, men don’t know how to give it to them. If you ask every woman on the planet today, all of them will tell you that men still haven’t gotten over themselves to address their eternal mistakes yet. Well maybe not everyone but most of them will. Read the rest of this post »

The difference between men and women

There’s a fundamental difference between men and women when it comes to dating. It’s this: women prepare. They do and have been doing so since they were little.

I don’t know if it’s a biological fact but it certainly is a social one. Girls mature into women way faster than boys do to men. Back when we were ten, girls were already dressing up and starting to learn how to flirt while we still go home with muddied shoes. That’s why girls seem unfathomable, shallow and stupid back then. We only pick up that these girls are wonderful creatures of the planet once we hit 15 years or so. Read the rest of this post »

Keep these things secret on the first date!

You’ve all heard how important first dates are. It’s all about getting to know the other person. Dating is a very hard game so it is imperative that you get first dates right. Or else you’ll be constantly thrown back to the single scene every time.

Conversations are important because through them, you can find out what a girl is like. So your goal during the first date is to keep conversation as much as possible. Make it engaging. Make it amazing. But still even the most engaging conversations could take a turn for the worse. Given the wrong topics. Read the rest of this post »

Be a friend first

Have you ever been so caught up in the art of seduction? Well I wouldn’t be surprised if you have. When going out on date, it is important that you know how to seduce a woman. What to say, how to act, everything. But sometimes, it still doesn’t work. You know why? Because you forgot one important thing.

Most men date a woman with the sole purpose of seducing her after the night is over. They forget to be her friend. Yes, this is a very important thing. It’s not surprising that it is so. Most men want to find out as soon as possible if the woman they are dating is sexually attracted to them or not. After all, what’s the use of pursuing someone who isn’t sexually attracted to you. But what they fail to realize is that attraction works differently for women than they do for men. Read the rest of this post »

Easing back into the dating game

Getting back into the dating game is pretty hard especially after a very long relationship. Just imagine this, you’ve been in a relationship for six years. You met her back at college when you were still discovering yourself and she helped you do so. She was with you through all the hardships and joy. Then suddenly, she falls out of love. Sometimes it does happen. So where does that leave you? In your late twenty’s with a huge emotional burden and an overwhelming yearning for “the one” that you lost.

Well to begin with, let me just say that she probably wasn’t “the one”. Because your relationship wouldn’t have ended if she was. So the right way to go about it is to continue looking for “the one”. Read the rest of this post »

Just friends syndrome

Have you ever heard the line “I’m sorry but is it possible for us to stay friends?” This is usually from some woman that you failed to win over. So instead they offer this alternative, or more appropriately this consolation. So now I just have to ask, how many times have you fallen for it?

If you have then that’s just screwed up. Don’t ever fall under the “just friends syndrome”. Every justification that she has for not being attracted to you is all crap. When she tells you “It’s not you, it’s me.”, guess what? It is you. And if she says that she’s just in a position in her life right now that she needs to blah blah blah blah…I can’t even finish writing that line. Read the rest of this post »

First date drinking

A lot of men have difficulties choosing what to do on a first date. Some men would opt to take their dates to dinner, others to the movies while others take theirs for a fun activity that they could engage in together. But others take them out to drink.

While drinking is perfectly normal, it isn’t really recommended to do so on the first date. Remember that first dates are all about making an impression (and trust me, whatever impression you make, it’ll stick with the girl for a very long time…) to the woman you’re with. So I can’t stress the first date’s importance enough. And the hard truth is…alcohol does make it a little problematic. Read the rest of this post »

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