For people who are seriously looking for a romance online, it is important to know when the guy she is dating with a boyfriend-material or not. Constantly talk to each other doesn’t guarantee that he’s that into you. But how would you know if the guy is already starting to feel the same way you do? Check out the ways!
1. After the first conversation over IM, he wants to talk to you more… and longer! It’s not just talk online; he wants more. He wants to hear your voice, saying that he wanted to hear more and even if he is supposedly busy that day, when he knew you are online, he will make a way to get online just he can talk to you.
2. He pays attention to whatever you say. If he really likes you he will surely pay attention to everything you say; be it a big or even up to the littlest things. This is due to the fact that men are more attentive to women they are interested in.
3. He leaves the other girls online just so he can have a private chat with you. Most of the time, online daters talk to ten people at the same time. But for him, he will close all the other browsers just so he can have a private chat with you.
4. He’s flirty around you… not pervert! With online dating, there is a fine line between being a pervert and just flirty. Usually, if a man is interested with you, he will surely flirt with you but the respect is there. When guys just want to have sex, he will say dirty things to you right away and the next time you talk to him.
5. He shares his life with you. A guy who just wants to have sex with you wouldn’t share anything about his life. But when he starts telling stories or sharing photos of his family, friends, pets or anything he is fascinated with then he’s probably interested with you. It’s like opening his life with you depicting that he wants you to know him deeper as much as he wants to get to know more of you.
6. He is eager to meet you. After several IM’s and web cam chats he is still interested and eager to personally meet you. You could really tell if he is interested if he wants to meet again and again after the first time he sees you in the flesh.
7. Introducing you to his friends and family. A usual date online wouldn’t bother to introduce you to his loved ones if he isn’t interested. But if he is already starting to feel something deeper for you he will present you to his friends and family, as well as he wants to meet your family and friends as well.
8. He respects your decisions. If a guy is interested in a woman, he respects her decision even if it will seem to take a little longer. Then again, he will still be there when you’re already available and are willing to wait for you.
9. He is willing to take time. Guys online who look for a quick encounter doesn’t want to take time to wait for someone who doesn’t seem interested with them. However, a guy who is interested in you will take time and wait till you’re ready to do it.
10. You meet his friends for the first time but it seems like they already know you for ages. Men, once they are interested and serious in a girl, tell his friends about her and frequently tell them all about you.
It may be a little hard to tell if a guy is interested with you, especially when you’re online dating. Sometimes though, women think he does like her but it’s actually the other way around. How to really tell if a guy is interested is when you open your eyes, mind and heart and trusted your instincts that something between the two of you is going deeper.