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She’s Not (That) Into You

Online flirting could be deceiving and for all you know, the girl you are already falling in love with is just playing. Maybe she is into you, but not THAT into you. How can you tell? Read these (obvious) signs.

She's not for you

She ignores your messages. This goes especially for those who have exchanged messages already. When after several messages she suddenly ignores you, then maybe she’s not really interested.

She ignores you on Chat Roons. There is a fine line between being friendly to everyone inside a chat room and completely ignoring you. When she talks to every single person inside a chat room except you, then that’s a clear signal dude!

She doesn’t wanna meet… either on web cam chat or in real life.

Endless Excuses. Ask her on a conversation to meet up and she keeps on making an excuse not to go… every time!

Invisible mode. The new Yahoo! messenger allows you to view contacts that are online even if they appear offline. Once you spotted her on an invisible mode and you messaged her but did not replied, maybe she’s hiding from you.

She keeps on talking about other guys she met online. Keep an open eye when it comes to this. Also, take note of the words she is throwing when describing the guys she met.

Her description of an ideal guy describes NOTHING about you. Read her profile carefully. Do you have the above “type of guy I want to meet?”

Watch her words… on IM’s, on chat rooms, even on her profile. Some girls write what they don’t want in their profile. When you apologized for being idle for a little while and she said it’s sooooooo ok even if you didn’t came back, maybe she really isn’t interested.

G2G. Here’s the case: she says she has to leave in the middle of a conversation and then she logs out. After a few minutes she logged in again (you’re still online) and then logged out after a few seconds. Hmmm, suspicious, isn’t it?

 

Everyone must know that just like in real life, Online Dating doesn’t guarantee love everytime you meet someone online. Sometimes, people just dig flirting and prefers to stay that way. So when you read these signs and agreed in almost the entire above, take note of this line: She’s Not (That) Into You.

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