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Is she interested?Not every man out there understands how a woman shows her attraction to him. Because unlike men, women use more non-verbal signals when letting someone know that she is interested in him. And as we men know, their “signals” aren’t exactly as straightforward as they think the signals are. Most of their meanings are either vague or completely lost to us. So how do we address this problem?

One thing, when a woman likes you, she will let you know. Even if you know it or not. An example is appearing to be rapt with attention to everything that you say. She will show interest in it. Just remember that you are never going to hear the actual “I like you” from her lips. Not at the beginning. You will only hear it much much later when she is already sure of reciprocity. Only then will you hear her confess her true feelings. But during those early phases, eagerness to be around you for company is an indicator that she is offering her heart to you and that she has taken a liking to you.

This holds true if she wants to reject you or else break up. The signs are always subtle but always there. Again, you won’t hear her blurt the words because they are more uncomfortable doing that than we are. Some things that she could do to “hint” her unwillingness are evading your calls or standing you up. There would always be reasons that fail to justify her actions towards you. For a woman, a man must know when to “take a hint”.

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Once you pickup those signals, it is up to you to initiate the breakup conversation. Don’t expect the woman to do so as it will only lead to misunderstanding. It is up to you to take action. I mean if she really likes you and is just playing games, she will definitely want you back. So being the one who moves away gives you the upper hand. But again if she doesn’t call or show any sign of wanting, “take the hint” and move on.

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