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Coffee shops: women hotspots

Contrary to popular belief, bars and clubs loaded with the latest hip-hopping sounds are not the best place to meet wonderful women. Okay let me rephrase that. It’s a great place to meet wonderful women but a sucky place for hooking up with them.

 

There are many reasons for this. First, way too many competitors and second, way too defensive and wary women. But there is another place that women frequent that offers much more potential when it comes to hooking up with them. The coffeehouse.

 

If you frequent coffeehouses yourself then you probably know what I’m talking about. Or you could be a FRIENDS watcher so you must have an idea. People go there to chill. They don’t hang around in coffee shops with their dance shoes on and over the top energy. No, they’re there to sit, drink coffee and most of the time, read. So for one thing, women in coffee houses won’t have their bitch modes on when you come up to talk to them.

 

In picking up women in coffeehouses, it is important that you know where to sit. Make it something strategic but comfortable at the same time. I recommend couches especially those that are grouped in twos or three’s. I don’t really like sitting by the door but if it works for you then go ahead. Sitting by the window can give you a good view of the people coming from and going to the coffeehouse so it’s a pretty convenient spot to look for incoming potentials. But once they are inside though, they’d much rather head somewhere near the fireplace or the comfy couches rather than beside the window so it’s better for you to head there instead.

 

Actually it’s very easy to strike a conversation with a woman in a coffee shop. It takes much less bravado than most places. Because the setting actually helps a lot to give you advantage. Being in a relaxing place like a coffee house automatically relaxes and puts the woman in a casual mood as well. So just come up to her and comment on something to get her attention. Say something about her clothes, a general comment about the weather outside or better yet, if she is, make a comment about the book she is reading. Nothing will capture a woman’s attention faster than showing her that you already have a common interest.

 

If that doesn’t work out for you, then try bringing interesting materials when you go to the coffee house. It could be an interesting book as well, something that will catch a woman’s eyes. Or maybe a deck of tarot cards or a bag of runes. Offer to tell their fortune (so make sure to study the basics first) to engage them in esoteric conversations. You can’t pull these off better than inside a coffee house over cups of cappuccino.

One note about coffee houses, it’s so much better if you become a regular there. Women are attracted to congenial people so they’ll notice you right away if you’re friendly with the crew and if the crew knows you by name. Plus you could get updates about happenings like artists that will play there or book signings or whatever. Events that will make the shop full of interested women. The better chances for you to hook up with someone.

 

So start loading up on caffeine now and head for the nearest coffee shop to score your next hot date.

 

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