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Trust your instincts

Sometimes the key to getting dates is knowing how to ably pick up women. This is a skill that not all men have. Most of the time we wait for the right moment or happenstance to arrive but we never make that moment for ourselves. That’s what picking up women’s all about. Seizing the moment. And trust me to be able to excel at it, you’d have to deal with a very brief moment indeed.

Do you stare? Come on you can tell me. Nah just kidding. It’s understandable. Women are the most fascinating creatures to ever walk the planet. And they are reasons enough for men to stop and stare.

But stare is something you must never do when you want to pick up a woman! In fact you may end up looking like a psycho. So just control that tendency and wipe off that drool.

Okay, the reason why I said that is that there is always a window of opportunity every time you meet a woman. Once your eye catches a woman you like, don’t wait for a whole minute or two to act up, give it seven seconds at most. Or else the moment is gone. You see that is the time when you haven’t begun analyzing the situation yet. At that time, only instincts are at play.

Yes, the saying “trust your instincts” never really gets old. After a minute, you begin to think of the possible ramifications of asking someone out so your confidence level lowers. So what I’m saying that you’ll have a better chance if you ask her at once as opposed to putting it off.

So what you do is go up to the woman and make small talk. But be confident. Because most of the time women don’t hear “what” you are saying but they do hear “how”. So once you catch their attention then just make sure to keep the conversation flowing. Don’t turn it into a monologue about yourself nor to a question and answer on her part. Combine cockiness and playfulness. Be funny but be domineering sometimes too. Make her feel like a woman and make her see you as a man.

Don’t forget to ask for her number. Never forget that. That’s the ultimate measure on how you’re faring with the picking up game. Some men don’t want to take that chance and hope they’ll just accidental meet some other day. Don’t be like that. Rejection isn’t just part of the dating game; it’s a part of life. Don’t shy away from it, face it like a man.

Don’t let rejections get you down. It may seem natural for it to do so but trust me, you’re not helping yourself. Surely every attempt has the chance to succeed or fail, the healthy way to think about it is to commend yourself for having taken that chance. Just charge it to experience and move on.

So try and try and don’t waste that moment. It’s brief but with enough practice, you would be able to work around that. You have to try and perfect that courage many many times before you become a master of picking women up. So just seize the moment, be confident and don’t be afraid of being turned down!

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