Every guy fights with his girl. If they don’t then something’s not right somewhere. But the thing is, fighting is normal in a relationship. There are things that you have to disagree about. Shoes, movies, birds, whatever.
But what is crucial about is that you should know that it’s always your fault! Yes, it is. Don’t try to reason out the argument because it’s just going to get worse. A lot of men don’t get this at once that’s why they end up with terribly pissed off girlfriends. Girlfriends who won’t talk to them for a week. Usually this puts them in a position wherein they don’t know what to do.
Well the first thing that you could do is to swallow your pride and be prepared to say sorry. I told you it’s your fault (even it absolutely was not!) so just accept that fact. You have to say sorry.
But even here, you must absolutely be careful. She’s not going to accept just any kind of sorry. You’ve made her heart as indomitable as a rock so now you’ve got to soften it up first. And she won’t accept it if the sorry is done half-heartedly. You’ve really got to go all out.
Well here are some “creative” ways that you could say sorry. It’s probably not in your nature to even come up with this but hey man…you do what you got to do.
Flowers
Bombard her with flowers. If possible, the entire flora available to mankind. If not, just the usual orchids, lilies and roses. Flowers usually soften a girl’s heart.
Teddy bears and stuffed toys
Stuff toys never get old when you want to say sorry. Get her the biggest goddamn teddy bear that the gift shop sells! Or send her a lot of little ones. If you have an idea of what pet she prefers (cats, dogs, or hell if your girlfriend likes pigs), then get her a stuffed version of that.
Chocolates
Buy her chocolates. Nothing expresses love than a bunch of chocolates. Make sure that you give her something expensive though. $1-dollar chocolates boxes doesn’t really scream “I’m sorry”, more like “I’m so cheap and I don’t mean it anyway so would you please get over yourself and talk to me again”. We don’t want to tell her that, no.
Perfume
For some strange rationale, some women love perfume. Make sure to get her something unique, something that would make her feel special. Not something that every woman out there is sporting. And remember the price my friend.
Along with any or all of these gifts should be a sorry card that you personally wrote. They would probably appreciate that card more than they do the gift but hey as long as she talks to you again, it doesn’t matter. Just make sure that your message really comes from you and not ripped off from some obscure romantic flick. Make it sound like you. You could even write poetry if you like but if you’re not good at it, then a simple message will suffice. Besides it’ll probably a surprise for her if you start sounding like Neruda all of a sudden.
Or if you prefer the digital way, you could always send “sorry e-cards” to her e-mail. Add an original message to the template. It’s all up to you. I’ll probably go with the gifts and card but hey, it’s still your choice. Whatever works for you my friend.