The kiss. The all time pinnacle of a woman and your chemistry. So it’s needless to say that nailing it is very important. So how do you do it?
If you haven’t kissed a woman before then we can help you work around that. The first thing you should do is practice and more practice. Don’t be shy to practice on a pillow or a fruit. It’s perfectly normal. Better that than messing up right on her lips I say.
Also make sure that you have healthy mouth hygiene when attempting to kiss a girl. You may think that your mouth smells pretty girl then just be embarrassed when your date thinks otherwise. Mouth odors are pretty hard to get rid off. Avoid having garlic or onions for lunch if you plan to put the moves on later because she’ll definitely taste those as well. Try not to smoke or drink strong-flavored alcohol if you don’t want to turn off your date either. A good way to address this is to come prepared. A box of mints or a gum could really come in handy.
During the actual kiss, there is no better advice than for you to relax yourself. If you feel nervous, your date will feel it in your kisses. You can find out a lot just by the way you kiss. If you’re angry or tense for example, your lips will be tight. So make sure to enjoy the kiss by relaxing yourself. Just feel the moment and go with it. Don’t think of anything else. Just completely feel that special moment and you’ll be fine.
Be sure to take it slow as well especially if it’s your first time. First kisses should be short, soft and sweet. Don’t go full out yet. Think of it as an invite. Adapt to her pace.
After a short kiss, take a quick pause to look into her eyes. This is where you can effectively tell how she is feeling. It shouldn’t be an all-out lips fest, be sensitive to how she is handling the moment. One good way to do that is to search the depths of her soul through her eyes.
Another tip is to use your hands. Don’t let them hang limp by your sides. Use them to caress her hair (caress not ruin her hairstyle!) or run them up and down the length of her arm. This will stimulate more reaction from her and could help make the kiss more intense.
If it’s your first time kissing a woman, or even if it isn’t, you shouldn’t use the kiss to work your way into her bed. Enjoy it for its own sake. Don’t start touching her breasts or any part of her that she doesn’t want to be touched. If you’re sure that she does then it’s okay but only then. Don’t assume that every kiss must end up with sex. You’ll ruin the moment for her and if you get rejected, what an ego bruise that will be.
Lastly you could end it with a hug. You can’t keep kissing forever as kisses, as I said before, should be kept short and sweet. So after kissing, you could extend that moment with a hug or a cuddle. If you do it right, then no doubt, she’ll be wanting to kiss you again.