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Playing up your looks

As an “average” looking man, you may feel deprived of the amazing dating privileges available to men with good looks. From celebrities, sport stars and models, the list would go on and on. All of them pose in pictures with most of the gorgeous women in the planet. There’s no way you could get you arms around one of those.

 

Wrong! Most women value personality more than looks. More often than not, they are looking for suitable life partners not exciting one night stand mates. The beautiful guys may get more of the latter but with the right attitude and style, the average joe just might secure the more of the former.

 

Looks are superficial and could be worked around at. This is not to say that you should not give importance to the way you look because you should…but to solely base your chances on getting a girl on it is absurd. Personality matters so much more to them. What they look for in a man is the capability to love, be compassionate and actually love them for who they are. It’s cliché I know, but it’s also the hard truth.

 

Naturally good looks do come with its perks. So do power, fame, money and status just to name a few. But you need not have all of them to secure a hot date. Dating is a game so just play by its rules and you’ll do fine.

 

One of the rules of the dating game is playing up how we look. You may not be blessed with that sought after angelic face but you could still use the way you look to communicate how much personality you do have. The first thing that men should remember is that the way we look mirrors the way we are personally. Most women have a good eye in analyzing this. Living a healthy lifestyle i.e. eating right, doing exercise, will tell a woman that you’re a guy who takes his health seriously. This is attractive to women. If you have dedication in taking care of yourself, what more if you had to take care of her right?

 

Also be sure to dress properly. If a woman sees a guy dressed in baggy jeans and crumpled shirts along with a man in ironed denims and pressed t-shirts, she’ll probably check out the latter. Not having the looks of a supermodel doesn’t mean the end of the world. It could be compensated by the way you dress. Giving attention to details like these tells a woman that you give importance in pleasing her. If you look like someone who just got up from bed and went straight out, how do you think she’ll feel?

 

It is also important to develop a personal style. Dress the way you feel like it. If you’re comfortable with what you wear, you’ll attract people who warm up to your sense of style as well. These women are the ones that you have the most compatibility with. They’ll probably share most of you interests. Think of it from your own point of view. We often judge women by what they wear right? Big surprise, they do too.

Another important thing that men forget is proper posture. A straight back can work wonders for how you look by changing how you hold yourself up. Walking with a straight back exudes a certain confidence that appeals to all kinds of women.

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