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It’s very easy to get caught up in the webs of the dating game. You spend so much time thinking how to act, what to do, what to say to a date. But are you prepared when she finally turns into your girlfriend? Good for you if you are but most men…they’re not.

Relationships are the inevitable results of serious dating. You might be ready for dating but not for the actual relationship. Well, like dating, relationships also take a lot of work. But after the effort you put into dating her? This’ll probably be smooth sailing. Just find out what you need to do and work on it. Read the rest of this post »

10 ways to spruce up your confidence levels

Confidence is essential when it comes to dating. You will never get anywhere if you don’t have the courage to go out there and meet people. It’s not a shame if you find it hard to find that confidence because many people don’t. Don’t for a second think that searching and making it happen will be easy though. It takes a lot of effort and will to develop courage and to be honest, not everybody is up for it. But if you really want to make the difference then maybe these 10 tips will help you in sprucing up your confidence levels.

1. Start by engaging in activities that you always wanted to do but never did. It doesn’t have to be big like bungee jumping or anything, just something that you always wanted to learn but never had the time. That or you never really saw its importance. Its importance now lies in what it could do for your creative character. Learn how to cook lasagna, cultivate a bonsai or take up salsa dancing. Things like that. Don’t be afraid to allot time for these simple things now because it will be for your own good. Read the rest of this post »

Dating basics

No matter how fast the dating game may be or how complicated it could turn out, one must never forget the basics. Because most of the time, that’s really all you need to know. But most of the time, we get so caught up with trying to find the one that we inadvertently forget the fundamentals. So now, it may be a good time for a refresher course.

Here are the things that you should remember not to do. Let me tell you what you’re doing wrong before telling you the things that you could do about it. Read the rest of this post »

Halloween dating

Sometimes the seasons themselves connive to give you the perfect dating opportunity. Yes Halloween season is upon us again and you know what that means? Halloween Parties!!!!!

I’m not a little kid jumping up and down on the notion of candies here. I’m talking about ladies man! Halloween is a great time to pick up women, especially if you have been having trouble doing that during the other months of the year.

Halloween is an excellent time to hook up if you prepare for it rightly enough. There will be parties here and there with women who are all looking for a good time. You will have lots of options, don’t worry. But first, you must keep some things in mind. Read the rest of this post »

Straight from the book mistakes

Dating is hard enough as it is without us having to screw it up. But most of the time, we do. You know, screw it up.

Women today know what they want and have clear ideas on how to get it. But sadly, men don’t know how to give it to them. If you ask every woman on the planet today, all of them will tell you that men still haven’t gotten over themselves to address their eternal mistakes yet. Well maybe not everyone but most of them will. Read the rest of this post »

Taking it to the next level

It’s important for any kind of relationship to have some direction. It just doesn’t make any sense if you both know it’s not heading somewhere. So it is vital that you take the relationship to the next level. But when do you do it and how are you going to know if you’re ready?

Most people say that it’s time to move out of the dating phase and into the relationship phase once you hit a year. I think it should be sooner. If you read the criteria below you’ll find out why it is better. Read the rest of this post »

Coffee shops: women hotspots

Contrary to popular belief, bars and clubs loaded with the latest hip-hopping sounds are not the best place to meet wonderful women. Okay let me rephrase that. It’s a great place to meet wonderful women but a sucky place for hooking up with them.

There are many reasons for this. First, way too many competitors and second, way too defensive and wary women. But there is another place that women frequent that offers much more potential when it comes to hooking up with them. The coffeehouse. Read the rest of this post »

The difference between men and women

There’s a fundamental difference between men and women when it comes to dating. It’s this: women prepare. They do and have been doing so since they were little.

I don’t know if it’s a biological fact but it certainly is a social one. Girls mature into women way faster than boys do to men. Back when we were ten, girls were already dressing up and starting to learn how to flirt while we still go home with muddied shoes. That’s why girls seem unfathomable, shallow and stupid back then. We only pick up that these girls are wonderful creatures of the planet once we hit 15 years or so. Read the rest of this post »

Trust your instincts

Sometimes the key to getting dates is knowing how to ably pick up women. This is a skill that not all men have. Most of the time we wait for the right moment or happenstance to arrive but we never make that moment for ourselves. That’s what picking up women’s all about. Seizing the moment. And trust me to be able to excel at it, you’d have to deal with a very brief moment indeed.

Do you stare? Come on you can tell me. Nah just kidding. It’s understandable. Women are the most fascinating creatures to ever walk the planet. And they are reasons enough for men to stop and stare. Read the rest of this post »

Experience is the best teacher

You are probably wondering why up until now you’re still unable to land yourself a girlfriend. So you decide to do something about it. You spend hours and hours in front of the computer scouring for dating advices targeted for the single modern man. You make a list of everything you need to know. And here’s what you find out:

Women don’t like nice guys. You find out that they get turned off when you try to appease them too much. They want men to be leaders not wusses. They like men who are assertive and self-secured. You now understand that this is the reason why they are attracted to those good for nothing jerks. Those guys who you were previously curious about because they always seem to have a nice woman around their arms even though they treat the girls like crap. So you decide to emulate them. Check! Read the rest of this post »

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