Do you want to double your chance of winning in a dating game?
Surveying variety of top experts, we’ve learned five unbelievably effective secrets to make the opposite sex come after you.
Here are the list on how to:
1. Being the center of attention
Ever wanted to be noticed? Then stand in the center of the room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, author of several books and is a know expert in the field of spatial psychology, your place or area in the room has something to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex. Where would you think can find the greatest number of cuties? Be in the center, stand up and move around a little bit.
If for example you are in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners of the bar. Not only that you would be able to meet more people, but also, according to Mehrabian, bartenders also tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. A conversation and a full drink will feel like you’ve gone to heaven. The worst place to be seen is hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table. Hot strangers approaching your table and asking if they can join you will only happen at movies.
2. Enticing Colors
What do you think is a color that will attract the opposite sex and approach you?
Well, according to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, most women are attracted to men who wears the color blue. According to him, men who frequently wears blue are stable and faithful. A blue guy is a great candidate for a long-term relationship: dependable, monogonous and good at matching his own clothes.
For ladies, Eiseman says women should wear pink-peach colors to make themselves approachable. The color gives a flattering impression to skin tones, giving a healthy glow. It also projects a little vulnerability which will bring out something protective in men.
Would you want a color that weeds out men who can’t handle strong women? Wear a color deep red, plum or burgundy. Men who aren’t attracted to strong women will clear out the way.
But of all the colors, the red is the most sensual. Though wear it with caution, it is a color of sex and power. It is an element of excitement and it attracts two type of men: men interested in sex, and men attracted to power women. With this color, you could also end up attracting a guy who isn’t threatened to the fact that you have a bigger salary.
If you would like to avoid driving people away from you, Eiseman advises you to stay away from yellow-green colors that will repel both sexes.
3. The Body Talk
So how do we use body language to attract the opposite sex? If you’re a woman, then make yourself approachable. According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, to make yourself safe or approachable. to the target. So how do you do that? Avoid taking a lot of space which is a sign of power and superiority. Wood says that women are strong, but you’re trying to get a man to come and talk. You have to show that you have room for someone else in your life.
Wood adds up a tip that to be a very approachable woman, they should stand with their feet not further than 6 inches apart with toes slightly pointing inwards. Hint up a nod and head tilt, a sign that you are listening to what the other person is saying.
For men, being more dominant would effectively draw the attraction from women. Stand up with your feet 6-10 inches apart and with toes pointing outward. Take up some space. Mehrabian suggests that men should try to wear a bulky or conservative hairsytle or clothing, head up high, accelerate the speech and gesture to be more assertive.
And these body language applies to both sexes: don’t fold arms, don’t chew gums, ice or fingernails. Wood says that chewing is a sign of anxiety or frustration, which are undesirable and unattractive emotions.
4. Smile
Experts agrees on one thing that is most important of all that will make someone more attractive: smile. Not a grin-like smile or just showing off smiles. Be natural upon smiling, as if you are having a great time and you’re happy to be on that place. According to Wood, a smile is an international signal of being friendly.
5. Tempting scent
Studies showed that men are associated with the scents of cinnamon and vanilla. To make it work for you, bake some ready-made cinnamon rolls for about an hour before your date or you can wear a cinnamon-vanilla scented perfume.
Aromatherapy experts have believed that cinnamon causes a strong arousing sexual desire. According to Laura Davimes, a herb and aromatherapy expert and a owner of Herban Avenues, quotes that there are certain aromatic plants exude oils that is similar to human sexual secretions (pheromones). Wearing cinnamon/vanilla blends increases pheromones substances and dramatically increases attraction.
On the other hand, women, according to a recent study, are attracted to a black licorice scent. If you are on a club and happened to be spilled with Jaggermeister, don’t worry about the stain on your shirt, you can just consider it your lucky night.